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December 24, 2007

New Year’s Resolutions in 2008: Stick with One

Making a list of all your New Year’s resolutions for 2008 right about now?

Are you vowing to eat better, quit smoking, spend more time with your kids, work smarter, stress less, use all your vacation days and become a better team player at the office?

Then let me level with you: You’re wasting your time.

Now before you accuse me of being a cynical spoilsport, I’ll ask you to think back to your resolutions from years past: How many of them did you actually keep for more than a couple of weeks? I’m guessing not many -- or any.

I know that you wanted to keep that pledge to hit the gym three days a week during lunchtime. If only you didn’t have that all-important report to finish for your boss before Martin Luther King Day, you never would have fallen off the wagon, right?

You certainly intended to become a more efficient, more productive worker in 2007. But then that pesky online social network called Twitter came along and you couldn’t help but become distracted a half-dozen times a day. That was it, wasn’t it? 

Why So Many New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work

The real problem with New Year’s resolutions -- including those for the workplace -- is that we make too many of them and don’t develop a plan of attack for realizing our goals.

My solution? Make one workplace resolution -- not five, 10 or 20 -- for 2008 and then work like heck to make sure you achieve it. Here’s how: 

  • Know How You Got Here: If you have some quiet time between now and January 1, ask yourself why your single resolution has moved front and center in the first place. Are you desperately seeking a promotion? Are you bored on the job?  Do you have a toxic relationship with your boss? Getting to the motivations behind the burning issue will ensure you’re ready to make true change in the new year.

  •  Write It Down: You’ll be more committed to your goal when you write it out on a piece of paper. Speak the words of your resolution, too, and then engrave them into your visual memory for the year to come.

  • Stretch Yourself: While goals should be realistic, they’re not worth much if you can achieve them without breaking a sweat. Be prepared to work hard.

  •  Identify Your Allies and Opponents: Whose cooperation or partnership will you need to achieve your resolution, and who might stand in your way? Come up with a plan for working with both groups as you stay focused on your cause.

  •  Visualize the Finish Line: Reaching your resolution by year’s end will require a mix of self-confidence, competency and dogged determination to not to get knocked off course. See yourself standing in the winner’s circle on December 31, 2008, and then walk backward through the year, charting the critical steps you’ll need to take along the way.

So don’t burn your energy making too many workplace resolutions for next year. Stick with one, make it meaningful and challenging, and then think through your strategy and tactics for reaching your goal.

Good luck.

What’s your New Year’s resolution?

I’m still settling on my single resolution for 2008, but what about you?  What is your workplace goal for the coming year?

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Well, nice post, that makes sense.

Mine could be...um...yeah.
Concentrate on the stuff at hand, not interrupted easily by outside distractions.

Posted by: Jeff.Wang | Dec 25, 2007 11:14:15 PM

While I still make resolutions (and largely keep them), I gave up on New Years Resolutions years ago.

If a resolution to do something is important, don't want for January 1, do it today. I know far too many who wait for January 1 to quit smoking, to work out more, whatever. Often, before too long - say February or March - they stumble and 'fail' in their resolution. And then say 'Well, I'll try again next year.'

Ludicrous.

Start today. Start on April 12th, if that happens to be today. But don't wait for Jan 1... you do yourself a disservice waiting for that date.

Posted by: Charlie On the Pennsylvania Turnpike | Dec 26, 2007 9:23:55 AM

yeah you are right,we need to focus on what we want and how we will achieve it so we can actually make it happen.
great post!

Posted by: Mourad Maher | Dec 28, 2007 9:52:24 PM

This is excellent advice to make New Year's resolutions transform into reality and last throughout the year. Outlining a plan, taking steps towards the goal, and visualizing a successful outcome will produce positive change. My professional New Year's resolution is to increase my business, The Professional Edge Resume & Business Services. I have already accomplished one of my goals to make 2008 successful.

Nancy Hedrick
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The Professional Edge Resume & Business Services

Posted by: Nancy Hedrick | Jan 10, 2008 1:03:41 AM

I want to find an exceptable job, where I could be happy about. So, my new years resolution is, to find a job that will make me smile, a job where I can be of assistance to others.

Posted by: Rick | Jan 10, 2008 1:49:47 AM

ONE OF MY NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTION WAS TO INCREASE MY INCOME AND NOT SPEND SO MUCH TIME AT HOME DURING THE WEEK.

Posted by: SARAH | Jan 10, 2008 2:55:29 PM

I do not make resolutions. I set goals at the end of the year. I write down what is the most important goal that I want to accomplish. Then I break it down into components that can be worked on. I have short term and long term accomplishments. They are written down in order of their importance. When they are completed, they are checked off. This is how I can measure my progress.
I never do more than two goals. Those two goals have to be something that I have to work at to achieve. They must also be something different than I am already doing.

This year my two goals are to find employment in a different career field. The second is to enroll in school on line and complete my degree work.

Since I was laid off from my job, finding employment is the first goal that I plan to achieve.
I actually have half of the enrollment process for school completed. I am in the process of securing funding.

Posted by: msdwhyte | Jan 10, 2008 9:53:56 PM

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